Nursery and Baby Tips

Celebrating mums on International Women’s Day

Celebrating mums on International Women’s Day

Parents are at the heart of the iL Tutto brand. Every decision we make, every product we design is about making parents' lives easier. And that’s how it will always be. We know that for the majority of families, mums are the ones taking on the role of primary caregiver. This International Women’s Day we want to give you insight into the iL Tutto business and how we’re inspired by those mums. The mums breastfeeding at all hours. The mums juggling newborn nap times with the needs of a busy toddler. The mums who make our family lives hum so perfectly. The inspiration behind iL Tutto When Leanne Boyd and her husband started their first business importing and distributing baby goods, her youngest child was four months old. What started as a hobby of sorts while she was raising her young children, evolved into the couple buying the iL Tutto business in 2007. “At that time iL Tutto was a nappy bag brand,” she recalls. “We loved the iL Tutto brand and we were keen to start producing our own products. Ultimately, we decided to steer the brand towards nursery products.” The evolution of the brand into nursery was driven by a gap Leanne and her husband identified in the market. That is, for stylish nursing chairs that people were proud to display in their homes. “The brand focus is about combining practicality with the style that parents are searching for,” she explains. “Our products evolve beyond the newborn stage so they’re not just purchases for the short term. It’s furniture you can use in your home for many years to come.” Support when mums need it most The iL Tutto range today reflects what mums need and want. That is, stylish, high quality baby products that are designed to support their unique needs. Jess Carroll is a Nurse, Paediatric Sleep Consultant and mum of three. She works with parents to teach, support and empower them as they navigate the sleep journey with their baby. She’s also an advocate of the iL Tutto brand, recognising that the nursery chairs are so much more than a chair for a new mum. “The chairs are just divine,” she says. “While you’re creating a calming sleep environment for your baby, it’s also important that you’re comfortable. Gentle rocking in a chair is a really lovely way to wind down with your baby before you pop them into their cot for a restful sleep.” After working with so many families over the years, Jess says that many mums still feel a stigma about getting the support they need. “When you have a baby, your life changes in an instant,” she explains. “No one can prepare you for just how much it will change. There’s still a stigma around mums putting themselves first but self care, whatever you need to do to fill your own cup, is so important. Every other parent is out there trying to figure it all out in the same way you are.” Always evolving One thing that we truly value at iL Tutto is our customer feedback. We’re always listening to our customers and taking that feedback on board to evolve our products. “With each design we release, we consider what our customers are telling us and introduce features that will make their lives easier,” says Julie Georgiadis, iL Tutto Marketing Director. “Our latest collection – the Frankie Electric Recliner Glider Nursery Chairs – is the perfect example of this. “Parents were telling us they wanted somewhere in their nursery chair to store things like storybooks for reading to their toddlers while feeding the baby. We added discreet yet functional side pockets for this.” The Frankie range also includes a wider base for a smooth glide, bolster cushions for lower back and feeding support and USB ports for charging. For mums with a compromised core, the electric recline steps in to do the heavy lifting for her. “Frankie takes everything that our customers love about each of the other chairs in our collection and combines it all in a single, stylish chair. This is about understanding what parents want, what mums need and delivering on that.” Extending the support Our support for women, mothers and families goes beyond the features in a nursery chair. Leanne says that as a small family business, each member of the team is like a member of the extended family.  “Many of our staff work flexibly around school pick ups and drop offs,” adds Julie. “Even staff who don’t have children have access to the same flexibility.” When the business was looking to extend their support into the community, it made sense to look at ways to support women and families. “We wanted to find ways that we could give back,” explains Leanne. “Through i=change we can do that, partnering with different charity organisations that focus on empowering women and girls.” To support International Women’s Day, for every sale on our Australian website between 8–10 March, we’re donating $3 to i=change and the charities we support. It’s our way of spreading the iL Tutto support to more women and families around the world. 

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The essentials of self-care for new mums

The essentials of self-care for new mums

Becoming a mum for the first time is one of the single biggest changes you’ll experience in your life. You realise just what ‘busy’ actually means and experience a love truly like no other. When a woman becomes a mother, the focus is on the baby. Everyone wants to have a newborn snuggle and ask how the baby is sleeping and feeding. But what about mum? Self-care for new mums is something that most don’t think about until they're on the edge of burnout. Or when they’re out of the newborn phase and into the next stage of motherhood, when their babies are now big kids and more self-sufficient. But any mum will tell you that taking time out for yourself, even if it’s just a bath on a Saturday night, is one of the best things you can do for yourself and your baby. We share our tips for mum self-care to help you take the time you need to look after yourself while you’re looking after your baby. A shower can be self-care Yes, self-care can be weekly massages and facials. But it can also be a shower or a cup of tea in the garden by yourself.  Does a shower recharge your batteries? Does it make you feel like you’re ready to face another sleepless night?  New mums know that sometimes showers are hard to come by in those early days and weeks. But if a shower ticks all your mother self-care boxes then go for it. Likewise if it’s an afternoon walk or a cup of tea that you actually get to drink while it’s still hot. What you do for self-care in the newborn phase will likely look very different to your motherhood self-care at other stages. And that’s completely ok. Accept offers of help One of the biggest barriers that gets in the way of self-care for new mums? Speaking from experience, it’s accepting offers of help.  If a friend visits and offers to hang out your washing or do the dishes, let them. If someone asks you if there’s anything they can do to help, give them a job. People don’t offer to help if they don’t mean it and if you say no, the offers will dry up very quickly. Your friends who are mums will remember what it’s like to be so desperately tired but still needing to function as a human being. They probably wish someone had offered to do their dishes or laundry… or regret saying no when they did. Take the help. You’ll be so grateful you did. Set yourself up for success The nursery chair you buy for your baby’s nursery isn’t actually for your baby. It’s for you. Your nursery chair is to help make feeding and rocking your baby to sleep a more comfortable experience for you. Even something like a CoZee Breeze Co-sleeping Bassinet is about making your life easier. With baby in arm’s reach during the night, you don’t need to even step foot out of bed for feeds. Many mums love the convenience of an electric recliner, such as the Chelsea Electric Recliner Glider Chair. It has all the features of a traditional nursing chair, with the mod cons of push button recline. It also features an in-built USB port so your devices never run out of battery while you’re buried under a sleeping baby. A glider chair, like the Quinn Recliner Glider offers the same comfort with spring-loaded recline. This means you can easily move between reclining and sitting positions without needing to use your abdominal muscles.  Motherhood self-care is about the whole picture. Not just the indulgent moments of free time to feel like yourself again. Invest in yourself and your back will thank you later! Here for mums At iL Tutto, we’re deeply committed to supporting mums in their journey. Whether it’s self-care for mums, sharing your breastfeeding stories or tips for co-sleeping, we want you to feel supported. That support extends to our nursery chairs, all designed with the needs of new mums in mind. Designed in Australia and loved by parents around the world, iL Tutto is helping new mums care for themselves, one feed at a time. Explore the range and discover products that will care for you while you care for your baby.

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Grey nursery furniture for neutral styling without compromising comfort

Grey nursery furniture for neutral styling without compromising comfort

The grey nursery trend is still as popular as ever. And for good reason! Grey is timeless, stylish and calming. Building your nursery styling around grey nursery furniture gives you options. You can carry the grey styling throughout the nursery to create a soothing sleep retreat. Or you can add pops of colour to bring your little one’s personality to life in the space. We explore grey nursery inspiration, including high-quality and functional grey nursery furniture from the iL Tutto range and tips for selecting accents and accessories to complement your style. Furniture first When styling a nursery, it’s best to start with the big items, like your nursery chair, cot or bassinet.  Grey is a staple colour in the iL Tutto range. From grey nursery rocking chairs to grey bassinets, it’s a popular, versatile and chic colour.  One of the best sellers in the range is the Quinn Recliner Glider Nursery Chair, available in Pure Grey. The ergonomic design features a spring-loaded recline and provides next level comfort and support. The Paige Recliner Glider and Billie Recliner Glider, both available in Pure Grey, have similar functionality and comfort with unique design features. Paige offers a high backrest and a clean, minimal design, while Billie provides plush cushioning and a slightly wider base.  For a high-tech addition to the nursery, consider the Chelsea Electric Recliner Glider Chair in Grey Frost or the Henry Electric Recliner Glider Chair in Pure Grey. Both offer luxury and comfort with push-button electric recline and an in-built USB port.  A more traditional style in the range, the Olivia Rocking Chair with Ottoman features a beautiful, on-trend Shadow Bouclé fabric. When you no longer have a need for a rocking chair, the rockers can be replaced with the included legs to give you longevity for your chair. To complement your grey nursery chair, choose the CoZee Breeze Plus Co-sleeping Bassinet with Rocking Legs in Oak Charcoal.  Choosing the right shade of grey With so many shades of grey, which is best for your grey neutral nursery?  One important consideration is the undertones of the grey. Cooler greys have blue undertones that pair beautifully with crisp whites and pastels. Warmer taupe-tinged greys lend well to accent colours like buttery yellow or sage green. Also, remember that the lighting in a room will reflect different grey tones. Lighter dove greys are ideal for rooms with soft light. Deeper charcoal is best for rooms with warmer light. The size of the room may also impact your choice as lighter greys will visually open smaller spaces. Accenting your grey nursery furniture Once you’ve chosen your grey nursery furniture, you can then play with accents. Whether that’s tonal grey nursery accessories, contrasting prints or pops of colour through soft furnishings. The sky’s the limit with how you style. Choose white accents, such as curtains, cushions or lamp shades to crisply complement the grey while also brightening the space. Or opt for bedding and pillows in contrasting prints and colourful solids to highlight the grey backdrop. Or punctuate the grey with bright artwork, toys and accessories in primary hues. Some popular grey nursery colour combinations include: Baby blue or peach for a light and airy feel. Cherry red or bright orange for a bolder vibe. Rainbow colours dotted through the room for a playful whimsy. If you prefer to maintain the neutral shades in the room, incorporate natural wood finishes and touches of greenery. This also helps to provide a connection to nature in the nursery. Explore the possibilities of grey with iL Tutto Grey is a cosy backdrop for your baby’s nursery. And much how grey pairs perfectly with any colour, it also pairs with every stage of childhood and into the teen years for an effortless room transition. As your baby grows and their interests and personality develop, you can easily swap out the accent pieces and build on the grey foundations. Looking for more grey neutral nursery ideas and inspiration? Explore the iL Tutto range of nursery chairs, cots and bassinets to find the perfect grey nursery furniture for you and your baby. The award-winning range is designed in Australia to support parents as they embark on the most exciting journey of their lives.

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How to keep calm and enjoy a stress-free Christmas with kids

How to keep calm and enjoy a stress-free Christmas with kids

It’s the most wonderful time of the year. But it can also be the most stressful time of the year, especially when you have little kids. Seeing your family enjoying Christmas brings new meaning to the season. But it can also add to the stress of Christmas. From the disrupted routines to the overstimulation, the neverending Christmas events and the endless expectations, managing Christmas stress is a job in itself. We share simple tips to navigate the festive season with ease, ensuring a stress-free Christmas for you and your little elves. 1. Maintain your routine Disruptions to your routine during the festive season are inevitable. There’s the late nights, Christmas celebrations and, for toddlers and up, the sheer excitement of the impending arrival of the big guy in the red suit. While there’s not a lot you can do about the disruptions, you can still try to maintain some semblance of a schedule. That may mean keeping mealtimes consistent. Or sticking to bedtimes on the nights when you’re home. Kids thrive on routine this will help to give some stability. If you have a newborn, the CoZee Co-Sleeping Bassinets are portable to help you maintain your baby’s sleep routine, no matter where you are. It folds down in seconds and packs into the included travel bag for complete ease. 2. Start a family Christmas tradition Family traditions are far more beneficial for kids than something for them to look forward to each year. Those fun little rituals can actually help to encourage their sense of identity and belonging. At Christmas time, family traditions can become the anchors of a memorable Christmas. Your family traditions don’t need to be extravagant. Something as simple as baking and decorating cookies or wearing a silly hat for the photo with Santa. Your traditions can also evolve as your children get older. These are the moments that your kids will look back on with such fondness. Plus, having something exciting to look forward to can also help with your own stress at Christmas. 3. Imperfectly perfect Perfection is not the prerequisite for a wonderful family Christmas. Especially when you have little kids. There’s a good chance that they’ll break an ornament or cry when they see Santa. On Christmas Day they’ll be a catastrophic combination of overtired and overexcited. They’ll likely look at the incredible spread on the Christmas table and just want a bread roll with butter. No amount of stress can change any of this. It’s imperfectly perfect. And these are likely the moments that will make for your most cherished memories. Have realistic expectations and try to go with the flow. 4. Simplify the festivities If you’re really looking for a stress-free Christmas, keep it simple. Focus on what brings joy to you and your family and do more of that. This might mean fewer decorations or saying no to an invitation but it might be exactly what you need to reduce the frenzy of the season. Sometimes – for whatever reason – you can’t opt for a simple approach. In this case, it’s all about balance. Prioritise the activities and traditions that matter the most and adjust or let go of less important ones. This isn’t necessarily about doing less. It’s about doing what’s right for you and your family, focusing on connection, joy and balance. 5. Practise self-care Amidst the whirlwind of holiday activities, self-care often takes a backseat. But it’s actually at the heart of a stress-free Christmas. Yes, it’s challenging to find time for self-care when you have a baby or young children. But taking time for yourself isn’t a luxury. It’s a necessity. Take time out for your morning coffee. Go for a walk each day. Run a bath once the kids have gone to bed. Do some relaxing Christmas activities, like Christmas craft or baking (without the kids to minimise the stress!). Do whatever works for you to find some space to breathe and recharge. Even though it’s for the baby, the nursery can also often be your sanctuary. With the right nursery chair, you can lie back and read while the baby naps during the day. Or even recline and have a little nap yourself, away from possible interruptions. Merry stress-free Christmas from iL Tutto At iL Tutto, we’re on a mission to support parents. Usually that’s with quality, Australian-designed, award-winning nursery furniture. But we’re also here for the milestones and special events of life with kids. Merry Christmas from the iL Tutto family to yours. We hope it’s stress-free and magical.

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Real mums share their breastfeeding stories

Real mums share their breastfeeding stories

Storytelling is as old as humankind. We tell stories to share history, to connect and to entertain. There’s a reason why storytelling is as old as it is… it works.  For some mums, breastfeeding is a lonely experience. For others they’re overwhelmed by all the information available to them, even before they’ve started. That’s where breastfeeding stories can help to connect mums so they know they’re not alone and that support is available.  Lactation Consultant Pinky McKay agrees that mums sharing their breastfeeding stories is helpful because every breastfeeding experience is unique.  “If women can talk openly about breastfeeding, they’re going to normalise that breastfeeding is actually a skill to be learned,” she explains. “A lot of the time people expect that it will come naturally, but that’s not necessarily the case. There’s often a learning curve and challenges to overcome along the way, even if it’s not your first baby."  Pinky cautions that when sharing stories, we should also be careful not to add to the overwhelm or fear a new or pregnant mother might be feeling. But she says that mothers' groups are a great place to start sharing.  “You never know how someone else is feeling until you ask them or share your own story,” she adds. “The mum sitting next to you might be struggling too, even if she doesn’t look like it from the outside. It can be reassuring to share breastfeeding stories and know that others are in the same boat. Also remember that you don’t need to take on board every piece of advice from every story. If it doesn’t feel right to you, you can imagine the advice floating out through an open window.”  With this in mind, three wonderful mums agreed to share their breastfeeding stories with us to help support other mums in their breastfeeding journey.  Danielle’s story  Already mum to six-year-old twin girls, Danielle assumed her breastfeeding story the second time around would be straightforward. She soon realised that breastfeeding one baby can be just as challenging as breastfeeding twins.  “In the first two weeks I didn’t realise that my daughter wasn’t transferring the milk very well,” she recalls. “I wasn’t in any pain when she was feeding but she was quite unsettled. By day 11 she was pretty much refusing to feed as she didn’t have enough energy to do so.”  Danielle initially thought her baby was unsettled due to catching a bug from her older sisters. But at her three week check up the midwife discovered the cause of the issue.  “At the two week check up we found out why she was unsettled. We had a two day hospital stay to get support. Sometimes she latches perfectly, other times not so much. I have a portable breast pump so if she refuses the breast I can give her a bottle of expressed breastmilk.”  Despite the unexpected challenges, Danielle is positive about her experience saying that you can never be sure of the path that lays ahead.  Tarsha’s story  As a first time mum, Tarsha didn’t know what to expect from breastfeeding. She was overwhelmed with information and didn’t really know what to expect or where to start.  “When we had our daughter, we were in the hospital for four nights,” she recalls. “Each one of the midwives offered their own thoughts, experiences and opinions. Their approaches were sometimes quite different, which is confusing for a new mum.”  Tarsha decided to keep breastfeeding for the first couple of weeks and see how she went. Now three weeks into motherhood and breastfeeding, her advice to other new mums is to seek breastfeeding support early on.  “We did a birthing class with a midwife while I was still pregnant but they didn’t really cover anything about breastfeeding. I kept seeing different ads for breastfeeding classes but there were so many different options that I didn’t know which to choose!”  “I wish I’d known to find a lactation consultant while I was still pregnant. Then we could have built the relationship before the baby arrived so I had the support on hand when I needed it.”  Brittany’s story  Brittany had an amazing birth experience. But on day two, she learned that her son had tongue and lip ties. She had heard of these before but didn’t know anything about tongue and lip ties and breastfeeding.  “Initially we were told that the ties weren’t that bad and might not need to be released,” she recalls. “We were advised to see a lactation consultant and take it from there. A week later we saw the lactation consultant and she said that our son’s tongue and lip ties were some of the worst she had seen!”  While Brittany was anxious about her baby needing surgery, she also felt a level of relief because feeding was causing her a lot of pain. At three weeks of age, her son had the surgery. He started feeding immediately, much to Brittany’s joy.  “He’s now 15 weeks old and we’ve come out the other side. Those first three weeks were so incredibly challenging. He would cry while he was trying to feed and I would cry too. Each feed would take close to two hours and then he would sleep for 20 minutes before we had to start all over again. It’s honestly amazing how far we’ve come.”  Support for every breastfeeding journey  Danielle, Tarsha and Brittany all have completely unique breastfeeding experience stories. But the thing that they have in common is their iL Tutto nursery chairs. All three mums agree that their breastfeeding chairs have been the best investment they’ve made in their nursery.  “I didn’t realise how much time I would spend in my nursery and in my nursing chair,” says Tarsha of her Henry Electric Recliner Glider Chair. “I liked the chair because of the electric recline functionality, which I thought would be really helpful straight after birth. But the rocking and gliding motion of the chair has also helped me with burping and settling my baby.”  Brittany recalls how much time she has spent in her Quinn Recliner Glider, particularly through the very challenging early days of her breastfeeding journey.  “My chair was my saving grace,” she says. “I don’t know how many times I slept in it with my baby in the crib next to the chair. I sat in the chair for hours upon hours each day in the newborn phase. I would feed for two hours and then burp for 45 minutes. It was so comfortable, even straight after birth.”  When Danielle had her twins, she didn’t have a nursing chair. This time around, it was the first thing on her list. She chose the Chelsea Electric Glider Recliner Chair and says that it ticks all the boxes.   “The nursery is my sanctuary,” she explains. “I love the reclining option on the chair and also the rocking option. I can bring the baby into the nursery, away from the busyness of the house, and escape to feed. If she’s unsettled, I can recline back and rock to calm her down.”  Complete your story  With a chair to suit every style of decor, our award-winning range is designed in Australia. Choose from glider chairs, recliner chairs, nursery rocking chairs and electric recliner chairs.   Explore our complete range and complete your story with an iL Tutto nursery chair. 

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Preparing For Your Breastfeeding Journey

Preparing For Your Breastfeeding Journey

You have just created, grown, and birthed your beautiful baby - and now you have to keep bub fed, and manage breastfeeding!? If you are like me, the thought is daunting and overwhelming. I wanted to share some simple ways you and your partner can prepare for a successful breastfeeding journey and to reassure you that there is plenty of support if you feel like things are getting tough. You and your baby are learning on the job, remember, it is a learnt skill not a natural skill for many mamas. You may experience some tough and overwhelming times during your breastfeeding journey, but preparing and informing yourself of the benefits, process and where to get support is the best thing you can do.  As for most big events in life, it is easier to prepare when you have prior knowledge and understanding.   The same goes for pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding; antenatal education is the first step to prepare you and your partner. Australian Breastfeeding Association (ABA) encourages mama’s-to-be to learn about breastfeeding before your baby arrives, making you knowledgeable and empowered for when bub is born and more likely to identify any problems that may arise. Antenatal classes are also a great way to learn valuable information, and the ABA also runs a ‘Breastfeeding Education Class’ and support groups for pregnant and breastfeeding mamas. Being aware of where to find reliable resources is also important, the first place I suggest is the resources page in your pregnancy health record, or through your hospital’s website. Also discuss with your partner and those around you in the antenatal period that you want to breastfeed so they can support and encourage you, especially on those tough days. Often partners feel helpless in the early days when you are feeding bub a lot, so I encourage you and your partner to read ‘The Breastfeeding Partnership’ on the ABA website, which outlines how your partner can best support you while breastfeeding and feel included in the partnership of parenthood, to give you and your baby the best chance of breastfeeding as long as possible.  Tips for successful breastfeeding:  Skin-to-skin contact immediately after birth and as much as possible  Leave bub on your chest until after the first breastfeed pending you are both well   Encourage breastfeeding on demand - it is so normal for your baby to cluster feed. Understanding normal feeding patterns at each age can provide reassurance to you and your partner  Room in with your baby for the first 6 months (sleeping in the same room) and have a comfortable, supportive place to feed.  Keep hydrated when breastfeeding; try my Motherhood Hydration Powder to keep you nourished and hydrated  Ideally no dummies or teats until breastfeeding is established  Accept support and seek assistance when you need. Lactation consultants are a wonderful first contact when you need guidance and assistance   ‘Baby-led attachment’ or the ‘Thompson method’ are great tools to research  A hospital that implements the Baby-Friendly Hospital Initiative (BFHI), and supports the World Health Organisation ‘10 steps to successful breastfeeding’. The BFHI is a global launch effort to protect, promote and support breastfeeding  The basics:  Colostrum is present in your breast from mid to late pregnancy and following birth for around 3 days. Your body produces more colostrum due to hormonal changes and your baby suckling at the breast, therefore frequent feeds lead to a quicker increase in milk supply and a fed happy bub. You can also research antenatal expressing of colostrum in preparation for breastfeeding. Mature breastmilk fills your breasts around day 3 or 4 (70-90 hours) after your baby is born, and your breasts will become very firm. You may then notice a change in your baby’s suck and swallow pattern while breastfeeding, baby will take deeper slower sucks and you may also hear gulping and swallowing of your milk! You may experience engorgement around this time when your breasts fill, use warm compresses and lots of massage before bub feeds.  Maintaining breastmilk supply is reliant on frequent suckling and removal of milk from the breast, as well as regulation of hormones (prolactin and oxytocin). Supply = demand: the amount of breastmilk that your body will produce is determined by how often your baby feeds and how much milk is removed from the breast. The more milk that is removed, the more that is produced, therefore you make exactly the right amount of milk for your baby and their appetite/needs.  One of the most common questions for breastfeeding mamas: ‘How do you know if my baby is getting enough breastmilk?’  When your baby is feeding at the breast, you cannot tell exactly how much milk they are consuming, therefore a lot of mamas worry or will be unsure if their baby is getting enough. Massaging or feeling the firmness of your breasts before and after your baby breastfeeds is one way you will be able to tell if they are draining the breast or not. If your breasts feel softer and emptied when bub is finished then you can be reassured they have had a good feed, if they still feel firm then re-offer bub the breast. Your baby should breastfeed 8-12 times (or more) every 24 hours, with frequent feeds and emptying of the breast resulting in more milk produced. There are 3 main ways that you and your midwife can tell if your baby is feeding well and consuming enough breastmilk. Always look at the whole picture when assessing if your baby has had enough; feed frequency, nappies, weight and behaviour.   Output = number of wet & dirty nappies. Your baby’s wet nappies will indicate to you their hydration, especially in the early days before your milk comes in. The wet nappies should increase by 1 for every day of life, so on day 1 they will have 1 wet nappy, on day 2 they will have 2 wet nappies, on day 3 they will have 3 wet nappies and so forth until day 7, and from then onwards they should have 7 wet nappies every day. You also track the colour of bubs poo to determine their intake. On day 1 of life your baby’s poo will be a black tar-looking meconium, then as your breasts fill with milk on day 3 bubs stool should be greenish brown, then when by day 7 when your milk supply is increasing the stool should be a mustard yellow colour.  Weight. All babies will lose weight by day 3 of life, no more than 10% of their birth weight. After this your breasts will begin to fill with milk, and if they have been feeding efficiently their weight will begin to increase. Bub should gain at least 150 grams per week and return to birth weight around day 14 of life, depending on how much weight they have lost on day 3. Frequent weight checks with your midwife, GP or child health nurse is recommended until 6 weeks of age, or as directed by your health care professional.  Behaviour. Every baby is different in regard to the frequency and length they need to feed for to be satisfied. Looking at your baby’s cues as well as their behaviour can also be a great way to tell if bub is full and content. As you watch your baby you will learn their signs or cues of hunger, sleep and being full. If your baby is showing hunger cues, irritable, sucking their hand or not settling to sleep, they probably need another feed. A settled, relaxed and happy baby is generally a well-fed baby. Also trust your instincts mama.  What to do if you have concerns with breastfeeding: Always ask for help if you are having any troubles breastfeeding or need support. Lean on those around you that have breastfed before, or pick up the phone and call local child health nurse or ABA hotline. If you want an in-person consultation with a professional, a midwife or lactation consultant (LC) is the best person to see. If you need help in the early days and you are in hospital, press your call bell for your midwife to assist you on the postnatal ward. They will be able to check bub’s latch and provide practical assistance with breastfeeding. If you need further assistance, most hospitals have breastfeeding class you can attend or one on one consultations with an LC. If you have already been discharged from hospital, get in contact with a community midwife or LC that you can see.  What is an LC? A trained professional specializing in feeding support for families.  When to see an LC? If you need ANY help or support with breastfeeding; to increase your supply, manage pain difficulties when feeding, assess suck, swallow and breathing, as well as tongue function of your baby. You can even arrange to have an antenatal consult with an LC.  Where else can you access an LC? You can self-refer to any LC’s in the community; private LC’s, LC’s at your local child health clinic, as an outpatient at your local hospital, recommendations through your GP or other mamas and websites such as www.LCANZ.org  What are some other things that can help on this journey?   A great breastfeeding chair - I recommend the amazing chairs from il Tutto. You will spend a lot of time sitting down, supporting your baby’s head and neck while feeding and being comfortable is key. Read more about Why Your Breastfeeding Chair is the Best Nursery Investment You'll Make here.  Nourishing lactation cookies that are the perfect one-handed snack, loaded with beautiful quality ingredients from Franjo’s Kitchen.   When you’re breastfeeding, plain old water just doesn’t cut it on the electrolytes scale, Franjo’s Kitchen’s Motherhood Hydration Powder is a healthy way to hydrate your hardworking body. With the delicious taste of Australian blood orange and hydrating powers of coconut water, it’ll turn your drink bottle into your bestie. Haakaa Ladybugs, perfect for catching leaking milk - and not wasting it!  Plenty of cloths - leaking milk and baby vomit means an awful lot of mess. I like these ones from Kmart - cheap and they last   Some comfortable maternity singlets, with built-in support - I found these held nursing pads far better    Key resources:  Australian Breastfeeding Association (ABA) - great fact sheets on all topics, FAQs and a 24/7 hotline to call (1800 mum2mum)  Raising Children’s Network  Breastfeeding & Your Baby Booklet- find here  I hope these tips help you. Remember you are never alone on your breastfeeding or motherhood journey. This blog contains general advice only, and does not replace the need for medical advice.   Blog written by midwife Aliza Carr from Bumpnbub.  

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When Should I Stop Co-Sleeping?

When Should I Stop Co-Sleeping?

The question that almost everyone will disagree on! Co-sleeping has become a controversial topic in recent years mostly due to concerns around safe sleep, but experts almost unanimously agree there ARE ways to safely co-sleep with your baby.  The best way to co-sleep and ensure your baby is kept away from dangerous adult bedding is by using a co-sleeper bassinet.  Not sure what this is? Have a look here!   Of course, lots of parents will never co-sleep and that’s okay too! For those Mums and Dads, the question about when to stop co-sleeping is a redundant one, but for families who do co-sleep there are several factors to consider when deciding on the right time to move a child into their own room.  1. Your living situation  For lots of people – particularly those in one-bedroom apartments – the option to move your baby into another room becomes difficult! If that’s you, rather than co-sleep you could move to room sharing instead by bringing a separate cot into your room for your baby to sleep in.  This will be a necessary move when your baby reaches around 5-6 months of age and outgrows their co-sleeper bassinet.   For other families with more rooms to choose from, you may like to keep your baby in a room close to yours, or use a reliable baby monitor so you can still hear and respond to your baby overnight.  2. Your parenting style  If you align with an attachment parenting style you may never want to cease co-sleeping, and that’s okay! Ultimately, when to move away from co-sleeping is an entirely personal one.  If co-sleeping is working for you, your partner, and your child, stick with it!   If, however, you’ve noticed having a baby in your sleep space is killing the romance between you and your partner, it may be time to consider whether it’s working for your family.  That’s especially the case if your child is unable to settle to sleep or stay asleep without your presence.  It means your ability to do anything in the evening becomes basically non-existent!   3. Your baby’s temperament   Believe it or not, some babies do NOT sleep well when co-sleeping.  Although some parents may start out with having big hopes of co-sleeping, they may quickly discover their baby is Mr or Miss independent from the get-go!   For other babies, closeness to their caregivers is of particular comfort during the ‘Fourth Trimester’ but becomes less of a requirement as they get older and sleep for longer periods of time between feeds.  4. Sleep quality   After birth, a mother’s brain quite literally changes.  The amygdala – the part of the brain that drives emotional reactions like fear, anxiety and aggression – increases in size.  This change makes a mother hypersensitive to their baby’s needs, which is why mothers will often wake at the slightest of movement or noise from their baby while their partner is blissfully unaware!  For a mother who is already a light sleeper, this doesn’t bode well when room-sharing with a grunty, noisy newborn! In situations such as this, moving the baby into their own room may help to ensure the whole family is as well-rested as feasibly possible.   Equally, there are many babies who are easily disturbed by movement or noise in the room, triggering them to wake.  Parental snoring, rolling around, or early alarms can disrupt a baby’s sleep, making it yet another scenario where co-sleeping or room sharing may no longer be in a family’s best interests.   Ultimately, there isn’t a definitive time frame on when a family should stop co-sleeping.  There’s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all when it comes to sleep, so the decision is an entirely personal one.  If co-sleeping or room-sharing isn’t something you want to maintain long-term, we recommend moving your baby into their own room from 6 months of age.  You can transition them slowly by firstly moving their bassinet into their room, so their sleep space (the bassinet) stays the same while they get used to being in a different room.  From there, it’s relatively easy to move them into a cot.  Sleeping with their cot sheets can be helpful so their new sleep space smells like you!   For more sleep tips, head to @sleep_school on Instagram or visit www.sleepschool.co 

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Baby sleeping in a bassinet next to the bed.

What is Co-Sleeping?

You’ve probably heard the phrase “co-sleeping” and if you have, you’ll know it tends to get a bit of bad rap. Concerns around infant safety have driven a burgeoning sense of fear amongst parents in recent decades, causing them to steer away from co-sleeping entirely. The good news is, there IS a way to co-sleep with your baby while also abiding by Safe Sleep guidelines.  First, let’s get clear on different types of co-sleeping.   1. Bed sharing  This refers to parents who sleep with their baby in bed with them. Although the idea of snuggling up to your baby at night sounds like a nice one, it’s not considered safe. Why? Because it increases your baby’s risk of Sudden Unexpected Death in Infancy (SUDI), including Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) and fatal sleeping accidents. Firstly, adult bedding and mattresses are often too soft for a baby whose neck muscles are underdeveloped. A soft surface allows a baby’s chin to tilt forward, causing an obstruction of their airways.  What’s more, loose sheets and blankets can very easily end up over a baby’s face and increase their risk of suffocation. Unfortunately, there have been many cases of accidental suffocation by a parent when bed-sharing, either because of dangerous bedding or because a parent has rolled on top of their baby unknowingly.   2. Room sharing  Red Nose Australia encourages room sharing with your baby until at least 6 months of age. Room sharing involves putting a baby to sleep in their own flat, sleep space - either a bassinet or cot - in the same room as their parents. It means both adults and baby sleep in the same room, but they have very separate sleep spaces.   So why bother? Well, there’s a few reasons. The most obvious being that it makes feeding your baby overnight significantly easier if they’re close by, as opposed to in another room.  There’s a good argument for room sharing when it comes to safety too. Studies have shown room sharing can reduce the likelihood of SUDI, because sensory stimulation (like parental movement, noise, and smells) can keep babies from moving into a deep sleep, thereby supporting protective airway responses.   3. Sofa sharing  It might sound obscure, but sofa sharing has become somewhat of an accidental sleep arrangement, where one parent takes the baby onto the couch to allow the other parent some much needed shut-eye. Most people don’t plan to sofa-share, but it happens so frequently that Red Nose Australia has given it a label, and recommends strongly against it. Not only is a couch or sofa too soft to qualify as a safe sleep surface for a baby, there is also a very big risk of a parent falling asleep and either dropping their baby, or unintentionally wedging the baby into cushions or the back of the sofa.   4. “Side car” or co-sleeper bassinets/cots  Welcome to the best of both worlds! Co-sleeper bassinets allow parents to co-sleep with their baby, while also ensuring their sleep space meets Red Nose guidelines. iL Tutto’s co-sleeping bassinets attach directly to the parent’s bed, which allows parents to stay close to their baby, while also ensuring their baby’s mattress is firm enough. With their own sleep space, it also means bub can be kept far enough away from adult bedding - it’s a win/win!    Whatever sleeping arrangement you choose for your family, it’s important to make sure safety is at the forefront of your priority list. Lots of cultures have co-slept with babies for thousands of years and those traditions can still be honoured, while taking all the necessary precautions to minimise SUDI risks.     For more info about all things baby sleep, head to sleepschool.co or visit their Instagram page @sleep_school.

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Celebrating mums on International Women’s Day

Celebrating mums on International Women’s Day

Parents are at the heart of the iL Tutto brand. Every decision we make, every product we design is about making parents' lives easier. And that’s how it will always be. We know that for the majority of families, mums are the ones taking on the role of primary caregiver. This International Women’s Day we want to give you insight into the iL Tutto business and how we’re inspired by those mums. The mums breastfeeding at all hours. The mums juggling newborn nap times with the needs of a busy toddler. The mums who make our family lives hum so perfectly. The inspiration behind iL Tutto When Leanne Boyd and her husband started their first business importing and distributing baby goods, her youngest child was four months old. What started as a hobby of sorts while she was raising her young children, evolved into the couple buying the iL Tutto business in 2007. “At that time iL Tutto was a nappy bag brand,” she recalls. “We loved the iL Tutto brand and we were keen to start producing our own products. Ultimately, we decided to steer the brand towards nursery products.” The evolution of the brand into nursery was driven by a gap Leanne and her husband identified in the market. That is, for stylish nursing chairs that people were proud to display in their homes. “The brand focus is about combining practicality with the style that parents are searching for,” she explains. “Our products evolve beyond the newborn stage so they’re not just purchases for the short term. It’s furniture you can use in your home for many years to come.” Support when mums need it most The iL Tutto range today reflects what mums need and want. That is, stylish, high quality baby products that are designed to support their unique needs. Jess Carroll is a Nurse, Paediatric Sleep Consultant and mum of three. She works with parents to teach, support and empower them as they navigate the sleep journey with their baby. She’s also an advocate of the iL Tutto brand, recognising that the nursery chairs are so much more than a chair for a new mum. “The chairs are just divine,” she says. “While you’re creating a calming sleep environment for your baby, it’s also important that you’re comfortable. Gentle rocking in a chair is a really lovely way to wind down with your baby before you pop them into their cot for a restful sleep.” After working with so many families over the years, Jess says that many mums still feel a stigma about getting the support they need. “When you have a baby, your life changes in an instant,” she explains. “No one can prepare you for just how much it will change. There’s still a stigma around mums putting themselves first but self care, whatever you need to do to fill your own cup, is so important. Every other parent is out there trying to figure it all out in the same way you are.” Always evolving One thing that we truly value at iL Tutto is our customer feedback. We’re always listening to our customers and taking that feedback on board to evolve our products. “With each design we release, we consider what our customers are telling us and introduce features that will make their lives easier,” says Julie Georgiadis, iL Tutto Marketing Director. “Our latest collection – the Frankie Electric Recliner Glider Nursery Chairs – is the perfect example of this. “Parents were telling us they wanted somewhere in their nursery chair to store things like storybooks for reading to their toddlers while feeding the baby. We added discreet yet functional side pockets for this.” The Frankie range also includes a wider base for a smooth glide, bolster cushions for lower back and feeding support and USB ports for charging. For mums with a compromised core, the electric recline steps in to do the heavy lifting for her. “Frankie takes everything that our customers love about each of the other chairs in our collection and combines it all in a single, stylish chair. This is about understanding what parents want, what mums need and delivering on that.” Extending the support Our support for women, mothers and families goes beyond the features in a nursery chair. Leanne says that as a small family business, each member of the team is like a member of the extended family.  “Many of our staff work flexibly around school pick ups and drop offs,” adds Julie. “Even staff who don’t have children have access to the same flexibility.” When the business was looking to extend their support into the community, it made sense to look at ways to support women and families. “We wanted to find ways that we could give back,” explains Leanne. “Through i=change we can do that, partnering with different charity organisations that focus on empowering women and girls.” To support International Women’s Day, for every sale on our Australian website between 8–10 March, we’re donating $3 to i=change and the charities we support. It’s our way of spreading the iL Tutto support to more women and families around the world. 

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The essentials of self-care for new mums

The essentials of self-care for new mums

Becoming a mum for the first time is one of the single biggest changes you’ll experience in your life. You realise just what ‘busy’ actually means and experience a love truly like no other. When a woman becomes a mother, the focus is on the baby. Everyone wants to have a newborn snuggle and ask how the baby is sleeping and feeding. But what about mum? Self-care for new mums is something that most don’t think about until they're on the edge of burnout. Or when they’re out of the newborn phase and into the next stage of motherhood, when their babies are now big kids and more self-sufficient. But any mum will tell you that taking time out for yourself, even if it’s just a bath on a Saturday night, is one of the best things you can do for yourself and your baby. We share our tips for mum self-care to help you take the time you need to look after yourself while you’re looking after your baby. A shower can be self-care Yes, self-care can be weekly massages and facials. But it can also be a shower or a cup of tea in the garden by yourself.  Does a shower recharge your batteries? Does it make you feel like you’re ready to face another sleepless night?  New mums know that sometimes showers are hard to come by in those early days and weeks. But if a shower ticks all your mother self-care boxes then go for it. Likewise if it’s an afternoon walk or a cup of tea that you actually get to drink while it’s still hot. What you do for self-care in the newborn phase will likely look very different to your motherhood self-care at other stages. And that’s completely ok. Accept offers of help One of the biggest barriers that gets in the way of self-care for new mums? Speaking from experience, it’s accepting offers of help.  If a friend visits and offers to hang out your washing or do the dishes, let them. If someone asks you if there’s anything they can do to help, give them a job. People don’t offer to help if they don’t mean it and if you say no, the offers will dry up very quickly. Your friends who are mums will remember what it’s like to be so desperately tired but still needing to function as a human being. They probably wish someone had offered to do their dishes or laundry… or regret saying no when they did. Take the help. You’ll be so grateful you did. Set yourself up for success The nursery chair you buy for your baby’s nursery isn’t actually for your baby. It’s for you. Your nursery chair is to help make feeding and rocking your baby to sleep a more comfortable experience for you. Even something like a CoZee Breeze Co-sleeping Bassinet is about making your life easier. With baby in arm’s reach during the night, you don’t need to even step foot out of bed for feeds. Many mums love the convenience of an electric recliner, such as the Chelsea Electric Recliner Glider Chair. It has all the features of a traditional nursing chair, with the mod cons of push button recline. It also features an in-built USB port so your devices never run out of battery while you’re buried under a sleeping baby. A glider chair, like the Quinn Recliner Glider offers the same comfort with spring-loaded recline. This means you can easily move between reclining and sitting positions without needing to use your abdominal muscles.  Motherhood self-care is about the whole picture. Not just the indulgent moments of free time to feel like yourself again. Invest in yourself and your back will thank you later! Here for mums At iL Tutto, we’re deeply committed to supporting mums in their journey. Whether it’s self-care for mums, sharing your breastfeeding stories or tips for co-sleeping, we want you to feel supported. That support extends to our nursery chairs, all designed with the needs of new mums in mind. Designed in Australia and loved by parents around the world, iL Tutto is helping new mums care for themselves, one feed at a time. Explore the range and discover products that will care for you while you care for your baby.

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Grey nursery furniture for neutral styling without compromising comfort

Grey nursery furniture for neutral styling without compromising comfort

The grey nursery trend is still as popular as ever. And for good reason! Grey is timeless, stylish and calming. Building your nursery styling around grey nursery furniture gives you options. You can carry the grey styling throughout the nursery to create a soothing sleep retreat. Or you can add pops of colour to bring your little one’s personality to life in the space. We explore grey nursery inspiration, including high-quality and functional grey nursery furniture from the iL Tutto range and tips for selecting accents and accessories to complement your style. Furniture first When styling a nursery, it’s best to start with the big items, like your nursery chair, cot or bassinet.  Grey is a staple colour in the iL Tutto range. From grey nursery rocking chairs to grey bassinets, it’s a popular, versatile and chic colour.  One of the best sellers in the range is the Quinn Recliner Glider Nursery Chair, available in Pure Grey. The ergonomic design features a spring-loaded recline and provides next level comfort and support. The Paige Recliner Glider and Billie Recliner Glider, both available in Pure Grey, have similar functionality and comfort with unique design features. Paige offers a high backrest and a clean, minimal design, while Billie provides plush cushioning and a slightly wider base.  For a high-tech addition to the nursery, consider the Chelsea Electric Recliner Glider Chair in Grey Frost or the Henry Electric Recliner Glider Chair in Pure Grey. Both offer luxury and comfort with push-button electric recline and an in-built USB port.  A more traditional style in the range, the Olivia Rocking Chair with Ottoman features a beautiful, on-trend Shadow Bouclé fabric. When you no longer have a need for a rocking chair, the rockers can be replaced with the included legs to give you longevity for your chair. To complement your grey nursery chair, choose the CoZee Breeze Plus Co-sleeping Bassinet with Rocking Legs in Oak Charcoal.  Choosing the right shade of grey With so many shades of grey, which is best for your grey neutral nursery?  One important consideration is the undertones of the grey. Cooler greys have blue undertones that pair beautifully with crisp whites and pastels. Warmer taupe-tinged greys lend well to accent colours like buttery yellow or sage green. Also, remember that the lighting in a room will reflect different grey tones. Lighter dove greys are ideal for rooms with soft light. Deeper charcoal is best for rooms with warmer light. The size of the room may also impact your choice as lighter greys will visually open smaller spaces. Accenting your grey nursery furniture Once you’ve chosen your grey nursery furniture, you can then play with accents. Whether that’s tonal grey nursery accessories, contrasting prints or pops of colour through soft furnishings. The sky’s the limit with how you style. Choose white accents, such as curtains, cushions or lamp shades to crisply complement the grey while also brightening the space. Or opt for bedding and pillows in contrasting prints and colourful solids to highlight the grey backdrop. Or punctuate the grey with bright artwork, toys and accessories in primary hues. Some popular grey nursery colour combinations include: Baby blue or peach for a light and airy feel. Cherry red or bright orange for a bolder vibe. Rainbow colours dotted through the room for a playful whimsy. If you prefer to maintain the neutral shades in the room, incorporate natural wood finishes and touches of greenery. This also helps to provide a connection to nature in the nursery. Explore the possibilities of grey with iL Tutto Grey is a cosy backdrop for your baby’s nursery. And much how grey pairs perfectly with any colour, it also pairs with every stage of childhood and into the teen years for an effortless room transition. As your baby grows and their interests and personality develop, you can easily swap out the accent pieces and build on the grey foundations. Looking for more grey neutral nursery ideas and inspiration? Explore the iL Tutto range of nursery chairs, cots and bassinets to find the perfect grey nursery furniture for you and your baby. The award-winning range is designed in Australia to support parents as they embark on the most exciting journey of their lives.

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How to keep calm and enjoy a stress-free Christmas with kids

How to keep calm and enjoy a stress-free Christmas with kids

It’s the most wonderful time of the year. But it can also be the most stressful time of the year, especially when you have little kids. Seeing your family enjoying Christmas brings new meaning to the season. But it can also add to the stress of Christmas. From the disrupted routines to the overstimulation, the neverending Christmas events and the endless expectations, managing Christmas stress is a job in itself. We share simple tips to navigate the festive season with ease, ensuring a stress-free Christmas for you and your little elves. 1. Maintain your routine Disruptions to your routine during the festive season are inevitable. There’s the late nights, Christmas celebrations and, for toddlers and up, the sheer excitement of the impending arrival of the big guy in the red suit. While there’s not a lot you can do about the disruptions, you can still try to maintain some semblance of a schedule. That may mean keeping mealtimes consistent. Or sticking to bedtimes on the nights when you’re home. Kids thrive on routine this will help to give some stability. If you have a newborn, the CoZee Co-Sleeping Bassinets are portable to help you maintain your baby’s sleep routine, no matter where you are. It folds down in seconds and packs into the included travel bag for complete ease. 2. Start a family Christmas tradition Family traditions are far more beneficial for kids than something for them to look forward to each year. Those fun little rituals can actually help to encourage their sense of identity and belonging. At Christmas time, family traditions can become the anchors of a memorable Christmas. Your family traditions don’t need to be extravagant. Something as simple as baking and decorating cookies or wearing a silly hat for the photo with Santa. Your traditions can also evolve as your children get older. These are the moments that your kids will look back on with such fondness. Plus, having something exciting to look forward to can also help with your own stress at Christmas. 3. Imperfectly perfect Perfection is not the prerequisite for a wonderful family Christmas. Especially when you have little kids. There’s a good chance that they’ll break an ornament or cry when they see Santa. On Christmas Day they’ll be a catastrophic combination of overtired and overexcited. They’ll likely look at the incredible spread on the Christmas table and just want a bread roll with butter. No amount of stress can change any of this. It’s imperfectly perfect. And these are likely the moments that will make for your most cherished memories. Have realistic expectations and try to go with the flow. 4. Simplify the festivities If you’re really looking for a stress-free Christmas, keep it simple. Focus on what brings joy to you and your family and do more of that. This might mean fewer decorations or saying no to an invitation but it might be exactly what you need to reduce the frenzy of the season. Sometimes – for whatever reason – you can’t opt for a simple approach. In this case, it’s all about balance. Prioritise the activities and traditions that matter the most and adjust or let go of less important ones. This isn’t necessarily about doing less. It’s about doing what’s right for you and your family, focusing on connection, joy and balance. 5. Practise self-care Amidst the whirlwind of holiday activities, self-care often takes a backseat. But it’s actually at the heart of a stress-free Christmas. Yes, it’s challenging to find time for self-care when you have a baby or young children. But taking time for yourself isn’t a luxury. It’s a necessity. Take time out for your morning coffee. Go for a walk each day. Run a bath once the kids have gone to bed. Do some relaxing Christmas activities, like Christmas craft or baking (without the kids to minimise the stress!). Do whatever works for you to find some space to breathe and recharge. Even though it’s for the baby, the nursery can also often be your sanctuary. With the right nursery chair, you can lie back and read while the baby naps during the day. Or even recline and have a little nap yourself, away from possible interruptions. Merry stress-free Christmas from iL Tutto At iL Tutto, we’re on a mission to support parents. Usually that’s with quality, Australian-designed, award-winning nursery furniture. But we’re also here for the milestones and special events of life with kids. Merry Christmas from the iL Tutto family to yours. We hope it’s stress-free and magical.

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Real mums share their breastfeeding stories

Real mums share their breastfeeding stories

Storytelling is as old as humankind. We tell stories to share history, to connect and to entertain. There’s a reason why storytelling is as old as it is… it works.  For some mums, breastfeeding is a lonely experience. For others they’re overwhelmed by all the information available to them, even before they’ve started. That’s where breastfeeding stories can help to connect mums so they know they’re not alone and that support is available.  Lactation Consultant Pinky McKay agrees that mums sharing their breastfeeding stories is helpful because every breastfeeding experience is unique.  “If women can talk openly about breastfeeding, they’re going to normalise that breastfeeding is actually a skill to be learned,” she explains. “A lot of the time people expect that it will come naturally, but that’s not necessarily the case. There’s often a learning curve and challenges to overcome along the way, even if it’s not your first baby."  Pinky cautions that when sharing stories, we should also be careful not to add to the overwhelm or fear a new or pregnant mother might be feeling. But she says that mothers' groups are a great place to start sharing.  “You never know how someone else is feeling until you ask them or share your own story,” she adds. “The mum sitting next to you might be struggling too, even if she doesn’t look like it from the outside. It can be reassuring to share breastfeeding stories and know that others are in the same boat. Also remember that you don’t need to take on board every piece of advice from every story. If it doesn’t feel right to you, you can imagine the advice floating out through an open window.”  With this in mind, three wonderful mums agreed to share their breastfeeding stories with us to help support other mums in their breastfeeding journey.  Danielle’s story  Already mum to six-year-old twin girls, Danielle assumed her breastfeeding story the second time around would be straightforward. She soon realised that breastfeeding one baby can be just as challenging as breastfeeding twins.  “In the first two weeks I didn’t realise that my daughter wasn’t transferring the milk very well,” she recalls. “I wasn’t in any pain when she was feeding but she was quite unsettled. By day 11 she was pretty much refusing to feed as she didn’t have enough energy to do so.”  Danielle initially thought her baby was unsettled due to catching a bug from her older sisters. But at her three week check up the midwife discovered the cause of the issue.  “At the two week check up we found out why she was unsettled. We had a two day hospital stay to get support. Sometimes she latches perfectly, other times not so much. I have a portable breast pump so if she refuses the breast I can give her a bottle of expressed breastmilk.”  Despite the unexpected challenges, Danielle is positive about her experience saying that you can never be sure of the path that lays ahead.  Tarsha’s story  As a first time mum, Tarsha didn’t know what to expect from breastfeeding. She was overwhelmed with information and didn’t really know what to expect or where to start.  “When we had our daughter, we were in the hospital for four nights,” she recalls. “Each one of the midwives offered their own thoughts, experiences and opinions. Their approaches were sometimes quite different, which is confusing for a new mum.”  Tarsha decided to keep breastfeeding for the first couple of weeks and see how she went. Now three weeks into motherhood and breastfeeding, her advice to other new mums is to seek breastfeeding support early on.  “We did a birthing class with a midwife while I was still pregnant but they didn’t really cover anything about breastfeeding. I kept seeing different ads for breastfeeding classes but there were so many different options that I didn’t know which to choose!”  “I wish I’d known to find a lactation consultant while I was still pregnant. Then we could have built the relationship before the baby arrived so I had the support on hand when I needed it.”  Brittany’s story  Brittany had an amazing birth experience. But on day two, she learned that her son had tongue and lip ties. She had heard of these before but didn’t know anything about tongue and lip ties and breastfeeding.  “Initially we were told that the ties weren’t that bad and might not need to be released,” she recalls. “We were advised to see a lactation consultant and take it from there. A week later we saw the lactation consultant and she said that our son’s tongue and lip ties were some of the worst she had seen!”  While Brittany was anxious about her baby needing surgery, she also felt a level of relief because feeding was causing her a lot of pain. At three weeks of age, her son had the surgery. He started feeding immediately, much to Brittany’s joy.  “He’s now 15 weeks old and we’ve come out the other side. Those first three weeks were so incredibly challenging. He would cry while he was trying to feed and I would cry too. Each feed would take close to two hours and then he would sleep for 20 minutes before we had to start all over again. It’s honestly amazing how far we’ve come.”  Support for every breastfeeding journey  Danielle, Tarsha and Brittany all have completely unique breastfeeding experience stories. But the thing that they have in common is their iL Tutto nursery chairs. All three mums agree that their breastfeeding chairs have been the best investment they’ve made in their nursery.  “I didn’t realise how much time I would spend in my nursery and in my nursing chair,” says Tarsha of her Henry Electric Recliner Glider Chair. “I liked the chair because of the electric recline functionality, which I thought would be really helpful straight after birth. But the rocking and gliding motion of the chair has also helped me with burping and settling my baby.”  Brittany recalls how much time she has spent in her Quinn Recliner Glider, particularly through the very challenging early days of her breastfeeding journey.  “My chair was my saving grace,” she says. “I don’t know how many times I slept in it with my baby in the crib next to the chair. I sat in the chair for hours upon hours each day in the newborn phase. I would feed for two hours and then burp for 45 minutes. It was so comfortable, even straight after birth.”  When Danielle had her twins, she didn’t have a nursing chair. This time around, it was the first thing on her list. She chose the Chelsea Electric Glider Recliner Chair and says that it ticks all the boxes.   “The nursery is my sanctuary,” she explains. “I love the reclining option on the chair and also the rocking option. I can bring the baby into the nursery, away from the busyness of the house, and escape to feed. If she’s unsettled, I can recline back and rock to calm her down.”  Complete your story  With a chair to suit every style of decor, our award-winning range is designed in Australia. Choose from glider chairs, recliner chairs, nursery rocking chairs and electric recliner chairs.   Explore our complete range and complete your story with an iL Tutto nursery chair. 

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Preparing For Your Breastfeeding Journey

Preparing For Your Breastfeeding Journey

You have just created, grown, and birthed your beautiful baby - and now you have to keep bub fed, and manage breastfeeding!? If you are like me, the thought is daunting and overwhelming. I wanted to share some simple ways you and your partner can prepare for a successful breastfeeding journey and to reassure you that there is plenty of support if you feel like things are getting tough. You and your baby are learning on the job, remember, it is a learnt skill not a natural skill for many mamas. You may experience some tough and overwhelming times during your breastfeeding journey, but preparing and informing yourself of the benefits, process and where to get support is the best thing you can do.  As for most big events in life, it is easier to prepare when you have prior knowledge and understanding.   The same goes for pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding; antenatal education is the first step to prepare you and your partner. Australian Breastfeeding Association (ABA) encourages mama’s-to-be to learn about breastfeeding before your baby arrives, making you knowledgeable and empowered for when bub is born and more likely to identify any problems that may arise. Antenatal classes are also a great way to learn valuable information, and the ABA also runs a ‘Breastfeeding Education Class’ and support groups for pregnant and breastfeeding mamas. Being aware of where to find reliable resources is also important, the first place I suggest is the resources page in your pregnancy health record, or through your hospital’s website. Also discuss with your partner and those around you in the antenatal period that you want to breastfeed so they can support and encourage you, especially on those tough days. Often partners feel helpless in the early days when you are feeding bub a lot, so I encourage you and your partner to read ‘The Breastfeeding Partnership’ on the ABA website, which outlines how your partner can best support you while breastfeeding and feel included in the partnership of parenthood, to give you and your baby the best chance of breastfeeding as long as possible.  Tips for successful breastfeeding:  Skin-to-skin contact immediately after birth and as much as possible  Leave bub on your chest until after the first breastfeed pending you are both well   Encourage breastfeeding on demand - it is so normal for your baby to cluster feed. Understanding normal feeding patterns at each age can provide reassurance to you and your partner  Room in with your baby for the first 6 months (sleeping in the same room) and have a comfortable, supportive place to feed.  Keep hydrated when breastfeeding; try my Motherhood Hydration Powder to keep you nourished and hydrated  Ideally no dummies or teats until breastfeeding is established  Accept support and seek assistance when you need. Lactation consultants are a wonderful first contact when you need guidance and assistance   ‘Baby-led attachment’ or the ‘Thompson method’ are great tools to research  A hospital that implements the Baby-Friendly Hospital Initiative (BFHI), and supports the World Health Organisation ‘10 steps to successful breastfeeding’. The BFHI is a global launch effort to protect, promote and support breastfeeding  The basics:  Colostrum is present in your breast from mid to late pregnancy and following birth for around 3 days. Your body produces more colostrum due to hormonal changes and your baby suckling at the breast, therefore frequent feeds lead to a quicker increase in milk supply and a fed happy bub. You can also research antenatal expressing of colostrum in preparation for breastfeeding. Mature breastmilk fills your breasts around day 3 or 4 (70-90 hours) after your baby is born, and your breasts will become very firm. You may then notice a change in your baby’s suck and swallow pattern while breastfeeding, baby will take deeper slower sucks and you may also hear gulping and swallowing of your milk! You may experience engorgement around this time when your breasts fill, use warm compresses and lots of massage before bub feeds.  Maintaining breastmilk supply is reliant on frequent suckling and removal of milk from the breast, as well as regulation of hormones (prolactin and oxytocin). Supply = demand: the amount of breastmilk that your body will produce is determined by how often your baby feeds and how much milk is removed from the breast. The more milk that is removed, the more that is produced, therefore you make exactly the right amount of milk for your baby and their appetite/needs.  One of the most common questions for breastfeeding mamas: ‘How do you know if my baby is getting enough breastmilk?’  When your baby is feeding at the breast, you cannot tell exactly how much milk they are consuming, therefore a lot of mamas worry or will be unsure if their baby is getting enough. Massaging or feeling the firmness of your breasts before and after your baby breastfeeds is one way you will be able to tell if they are draining the breast or not. If your breasts feel softer and emptied when bub is finished then you can be reassured they have had a good feed, if they still feel firm then re-offer bub the breast. Your baby should breastfeed 8-12 times (or more) every 24 hours, with frequent feeds and emptying of the breast resulting in more milk produced. There are 3 main ways that you and your midwife can tell if your baby is feeding well and consuming enough breastmilk. Always look at the whole picture when assessing if your baby has had enough; feed frequency, nappies, weight and behaviour.   Output = number of wet & dirty nappies. Your baby’s wet nappies will indicate to you their hydration, especially in the early days before your milk comes in. The wet nappies should increase by 1 for every day of life, so on day 1 they will have 1 wet nappy, on day 2 they will have 2 wet nappies, on day 3 they will have 3 wet nappies and so forth until day 7, and from then onwards they should have 7 wet nappies every day. You also track the colour of bubs poo to determine their intake. On day 1 of life your baby’s poo will be a black tar-looking meconium, then as your breasts fill with milk on day 3 bubs stool should be greenish brown, then when by day 7 when your milk supply is increasing the stool should be a mustard yellow colour.  Weight. All babies will lose weight by day 3 of life, no more than 10% of their birth weight. After this your breasts will begin to fill with milk, and if they have been feeding efficiently their weight will begin to increase. Bub should gain at least 150 grams per week and return to birth weight around day 14 of life, depending on how much weight they have lost on day 3. Frequent weight checks with your midwife, GP or child health nurse is recommended until 6 weeks of age, or as directed by your health care professional.  Behaviour. Every baby is different in regard to the frequency and length they need to feed for to be satisfied. Looking at your baby’s cues as well as their behaviour can also be a great way to tell if bub is full and content. As you watch your baby you will learn their signs or cues of hunger, sleep and being full. If your baby is showing hunger cues, irritable, sucking their hand or not settling to sleep, they probably need another feed. A settled, relaxed and happy baby is generally a well-fed baby. Also trust your instincts mama.  What to do if you have concerns with breastfeeding: Always ask for help if you are having any troubles breastfeeding or need support. Lean on those around you that have breastfed before, or pick up the phone and call local child health nurse or ABA hotline. If you want an in-person consultation with a professional, a midwife or lactation consultant (LC) is the best person to see. If you need help in the early days and you are in hospital, press your call bell for your midwife to assist you on the postnatal ward. They will be able to check bub’s latch and provide practical assistance with breastfeeding. If you need further assistance, most hospitals have breastfeeding class you can attend or one on one consultations with an LC. If you have already been discharged from hospital, get in contact with a community midwife or LC that you can see.  What is an LC? A trained professional specializing in feeding support for families.  When to see an LC? If you need ANY help or support with breastfeeding; to increase your supply, manage pain difficulties when feeding, assess suck, swallow and breathing, as well as tongue function of your baby. You can even arrange to have an antenatal consult with an LC.  Where else can you access an LC? You can self-refer to any LC’s in the community; private LC’s, LC’s at your local child health clinic, as an outpatient at your local hospital, recommendations through your GP or other mamas and websites such as www.LCANZ.org  What are some other things that can help on this journey?   A great breastfeeding chair - I recommend the amazing chairs from il Tutto. You will spend a lot of time sitting down, supporting your baby’s head and neck while feeding and being comfortable is key. Read more about Why Your Breastfeeding Chair is the Best Nursery Investment You'll Make here.  Nourishing lactation cookies that are the perfect one-handed snack, loaded with beautiful quality ingredients from Franjo’s Kitchen.   When you’re breastfeeding, plain old water just doesn’t cut it on the electrolytes scale, Franjo’s Kitchen’s Motherhood Hydration Powder is a healthy way to hydrate your hardworking body. With the delicious taste of Australian blood orange and hydrating powers of coconut water, it’ll turn your drink bottle into your bestie. Haakaa Ladybugs, perfect for catching leaking milk - and not wasting it!  Plenty of cloths - leaking milk and baby vomit means an awful lot of mess. I like these ones from Kmart - cheap and they last   Some comfortable maternity singlets, with built-in support - I found these held nursing pads far better    Key resources:  Australian Breastfeeding Association (ABA) - great fact sheets on all topics, FAQs and a 24/7 hotline to call (1800 mum2mum)  Raising Children’s Network  Breastfeeding & Your Baby Booklet- find here  I hope these tips help you. Remember you are never alone on your breastfeeding or motherhood journey. This blog contains general advice only, and does not replace the need for medical advice.   Blog written by midwife Aliza Carr from Bumpnbub.  

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When Should I Stop Co-Sleeping?

When Should I Stop Co-Sleeping?

The question that almost everyone will disagree on! Co-sleeping has become a controversial topic in recent years mostly due to concerns around safe sleep, but experts almost unanimously agree there ARE ways to safely co-sleep with your baby.  The best way to co-sleep and ensure your baby is kept away from dangerous adult bedding is by using a co-sleeper bassinet.  Not sure what this is? Have a look here!   Of course, lots of parents will never co-sleep and that’s okay too! For those Mums and Dads, the question about when to stop co-sleeping is a redundant one, but for families who do co-sleep there are several factors to consider when deciding on the right time to move a child into their own room.  1. Your living situation  For lots of people – particularly those in one-bedroom apartments – the option to move your baby into another room becomes difficult! If that’s you, rather than co-sleep you could move to room sharing instead by bringing a separate cot into your room for your baby to sleep in.  This will be a necessary move when your baby reaches around 5-6 months of age and outgrows their co-sleeper bassinet.   For other families with more rooms to choose from, you may like to keep your baby in a room close to yours, or use a reliable baby monitor so you can still hear and respond to your baby overnight.  2. Your parenting style  If you align with an attachment parenting style you may never want to cease co-sleeping, and that’s okay! Ultimately, when to move away from co-sleeping is an entirely personal one.  If co-sleeping is working for you, your partner, and your child, stick with it!   If, however, you’ve noticed having a baby in your sleep space is killing the romance between you and your partner, it may be time to consider whether it’s working for your family.  That’s especially the case if your child is unable to settle to sleep or stay asleep without your presence.  It means your ability to do anything in the evening becomes basically non-existent!   3. Your baby’s temperament   Believe it or not, some babies do NOT sleep well when co-sleeping.  Although some parents may start out with having big hopes of co-sleeping, they may quickly discover their baby is Mr or Miss independent from the get-go!   For other babies, closeness to their caregivers is of particular comfort during the ‘Fourth Trimester’ but becomes less of a requirement as they get older and sleep for longer periods of time between feeds.  4. Sleep quality   After birth, a mother’s brain quite literally changes.  The amygdala – the part of the brain that drives emotional reactions like fear, anxiety and aggression – increases in size.  This change makes a mother hypersensitive to their baby’s needs, which is why mothers will often wake at the slightest of movement or noise from their baby while their partner is blissfully unaware!  For a mother who is already a light sleeper, this doesn’t bode well when room-sharing with a grunty, noisy newborn! In situations such as this, moving the baby into their own room may help to ensure the whole family is as well-rested as feasibly possible.   Equally, there are many babies who are easily disturbed by movement or noise in the room, triggering them to wake.  Parental snoring, rolling around, or early alarms can disrupt a baby’s sleep, making it yet another scenario where co-sleeping or room sharing may no longer be in a family’s best interests.   Ultimately, there isn’t a definitive time frame on when a family should stop co-sleeping.  There’s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all when it comes to sleep, so the decision is an entirely personal one.  If co-sleeping or room-sharing isn’t something you want to maintain long-term, we recommend moving your baby into their own room from 6 months of age.  You can transition them slowly by firstly moving their bassinet into their room, so their sleep space (the bassinet) stays the same while they get used to being in a different room.  From there, it’s relatively easy to move them into a cot.  Sleeping with their cot sheets can be helpful so their new sleep space smells like you!   For more sleep tips, head to @sleep_school on Instagram or visit www.sleepschool.co 

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Baby sleeping in a bassinet next to the bed.

What is Co-Sleeping?

You’ve probably heard the phrase “co-sleeping” and if you have, you’ll know it tends to get a bit of bad rap. Concerns around infant safety have driven a burgeoning sense of fear amongst parents in recent decades, causing them to steer away from co-sleeping entirely. The good news is, there IS a way to co-sleep with your baby while also abiding by Safe Sleep guidelines.  First, let’s get clear on different types of co-sleeping.   1. Bed sharing  This refers to parents who sleep with their baby in bed with them. Although the idea of snuggling up to your baby at night sounds like a nice one, it’s not considered safe. Why? Because it increases your baby’s risk of Sudden Unexpected Death in Infancy (SUDI), including Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) and fatal sleeping accidents. Firstly, adult bedding and mattresses are often too soft for a baby whose neck muscles are underdeveloped. A soft surface allows a baby’s chin to tilt forward, causing an obstruction of their airways.  What’s more, loose sheets and blankets can very easily end up over a baby’s face and increase their risk of suffocation. Unfortunately, there have been many cases of accidental suffocation by a parent when bed-sharing, either because of dangerous bedding or because a parent has rolled on top of their baby unknowingly.   2. Room sharing  Red Nose Australia encourages room sharing with your baby until at least 6 months of age. Room sharing involves putting a baby to sleep in their own flat, sleep space - either a bassinet or cot - in the same room as their parents. It means both adults and baby sleep in the same room, but they have very separate sleep spaces.   So why bother? Well, there’s a few reasons. The most obvious being that it makes feeding your baby overnight significantly easier if they’re close by, as opposed to in another room.  There’s a good argument for room sharing when it comes to safety too. Studies have shown room sharing can reduce the likelihood of SUDI, because sensory stimulation (like parental movement, noise, and smells) can keep babies from moving into a deep sleep, thereby supporting protective airway responses.   3. Sofa sharing  It might sound obscure, but sofa sharing has become somewhat of an accidental sleep arrangement, where one parent takes the baby onto the couch to allow the other parent some much needed shut-eye. Most people don’t plan to sofa-share, but it happens so frequently that Red Nose Australia has given it a label, and recommends strongly against it. Not only is a couch or sofa too soft to qualify as a safe sleep surface for a baby, there is also a very big risk of a parent falling asleep and either dropping their baby, or unintentionally wedging the baby into cushions or the back of the sofa.   4. “Side car” or co-sleeper bassinets/cots  Welcome to the best of both worlds! Co-sleeper bassinets allow parents to co-sleep with their baby, while also ensuring their sleep space meets Red Nose guidelines. iL Tutto’s co-sleeping bassinets attach directly to the parent’s bed, which allows parents to stay close to their baby, while also ensuring their baby’s mattress is firm enough. With their own sleep space, it also means bub can be kept far enough away from adult bedding - it’s a win/win!    Whatever sleeping arrangement you choose for your family, it’s important to make sure safety is at the forefront of your priority list. Lots of cultures have co-slept with babies for thousands of years and those traditions can still be honoured, while taking all the necessary precautions to minimise SUDI risks.     For more info about all things baby sleep, head to sleepschool.co or visit their Instagram page @sleep_school.

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